Wednesday, February 16, 2011

 Ginger and the Three Bears

The Bear family is quite proud of their South Carolina beach side condominium.  Robert Bear, Sr. has put in long hours as a stockbroker and Cindy Bear has made a fortune selling Mary Kay products.  She has even earned a pink Cadillac.  Bobby Bear, Jr., who is six years old, attends the very best private school in New York City.  Yes, the Bears have earned their place among the elite of the Big Apple.

Labor Day weekend finds the Bear family at their condo enjoying the long weekend.  The state of the art kitchen is stocked with their favorite foods: tortilla chips and hot salsa for Daddy, mild nacho cheese for Mommy, and medium salsa for Bobby.  The great room has three chairs that are perfect for viewing the HDTV: a La-Z-Boy Baxter leather recliner for Daddy, a La-Z-Boy Diana chaise for Mommy, and a Lap of Luxury Child Recliner for Bobby.  The Select Comfort Sleep Number King Sized Bed the Bear parents ordered is waiting in the master bedroom.  Bobby has his very own Twin Extra-Long Sleep Number Bed.

After unpacking and setting the table for a snack upon their return, the Bear family sets out for a long stroll on the beach.

Ginger Gold is a twelve-year-old runaway from Charleston.  She’s been on the lam for about a month, living off what she finds in trashcans.  Sometimes she is able to fool the “do-gooders” who feed the homeless into thinking she is with her mother.  Ginger joins up with a group of runaways who hang out at the beach.  They sleep in an abandoned shed, steal anything they can, and hide from the law.  At first, Ginger finds this life exciting and the freedom enjoyable.  However, she begins to miss her home, her bad, her mom’s cooking, her friends, and, believe it or not, she misses her family.  She just doesn’t know how to go home.

Ginger decides to take a walk by herself so she can figure out what to do.  After walking for over an hour, she finds herself in a ritzy neighborhood of condos.  She spies a bench and sits down to rest before returning to the beach she calls home.  Ginger watches the condo dwellers arrive for the holiday weekend.  One family in particular catches her attention as they carry their belongings into their beach home.  An hour later the father, mother, and little boy emerge and head to the beach.  Her curiosity aroused, Ginger approaches their condo just to peek in the windows.  Imagine her surprise when she discovers they left the front door open.  The temptation is too great so she quietly slips into the room.

Ginger’s eyes fill with wonder as she gazes on the fancy furnishings and the food spread out on the table.  The salsa in the big bowl burns her mouth so she spits it out.  The nacho cheese is too bland for her.  The salsa in the small bowl is just right so she quickly wolfs it down.

Her stomach satisfied, Ginger moves to the great room looking for a place to rest.  The recliner is so big it swallows her.  She doesn’t fit comfortably on the chaise.  The small recliner is just right until it collapses under her.

A full stomach and the warm room cause Ginger to become sleepy.  She decides to explore the bedrooms.  She lies down on Mr. Bear’s side of the bed but it is too hard.  She moves to the other side but it is too soft.  Ginger lies down on the twin bed and falls fast asleep.

Time passes as Ginger slumbers.  Soon the Bear family returns from their jaunt on the beach.  Upon seeing the mess on the table, Mr. Bear quickly takes his family back outside, uses his cell phone to call 911, and waits.

When the police arrive, they enter with guns drawn and find Ginger asleep on Bobby’s bed.  They all go downtown.  When Mr. Bear discovers that Ginger is a runaway who wants to go home, he contacts her parents, finds that they have been searching frantically for her, and want her to come home.  The Bear family takes Ginger back to their condo to shower and wash her clothes.  Then they all pile into Mrs. Bear’s Cadillac and make the trip to Charleston.  Ginger the runaway has come home.

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

FEELINGS

It's not being alone.
It is feeling alone.
It's not being unloved.
It is feeling unloved.

Feelings.
God created each of us with feelings.
The question is how will we use those feelings?
Will we allow them to control our lives?
Or will we allow God to teach us how to control our feelings?

First of all, do not bottle them up.
The cork will pop and you will explode.
Find someone with whom you can be totally honest.
And, yes, we can be totally honest with God.
However, sometimes we need someone with skin on.
That's why God created us with a desire for relationships.

I have discovered that years of being afraid to express my true feelings have made me a person who does bottle up things.
I have decided to allow God to change this in me and teach me how to express and deal with my feelings in a positive way.

The difficult part is to find someone you can trust 
and who will not judge you.
But isn't that what we as Christians are supposed to do.
To love each other, support each other, bear each others burdens.
So why do we so often shoot our wounded?

I'm learning to be honest with myself and others.
Not mean or petty, but honest.
Their response is not my responsibility.
My response to others is.

 Feelings are not good or bad.
It is what we do with them that counts.
When I feel lonely, I need to reach out.
I can do this by touching someone else who is lonely.
I can also do this by letting those who love me know I'm lonely.

The other side of this is to be willing to listen 
and to make a difference in someone's life.
My prayer today is:
"Please Lord, bring someone into my life who needs a listening ear 
and who will be a listening ear.
Open me to relationships You bring into my life.
Thank You for being my Friend.
Thank You that I do walk by faith and not by sight."
In Jesus' Precious Name,
Amen

"My eyes are ever on the LORD,
   for only He will release my feet from the snare.
 Turn to me and be gracious to me,
   for I am lonely and afflicted.
Relieve the troubles of my heart
   and free me from my anguish."
Psalm 25:15-17

"For we live by faith, not by sight."
2 Corinthians 5:7


Monday, February 14, 2011

Valentine's Day


 

For many single people, 
this is not a day to celebrate.  
For someone like me who has been married 
but is now alone, 
it can be a reminder of what I don't have.  
This can cause me to feel sorry for myself 
when I see other women receiving 
flowers, candy, and gifts 
from their husbands.  
Satan attempts to use the old feelings of 
rejection and pain to tempt me to sin.  
Self-pity, jealousy, and despair are just
a few of the results of those old feelings.

However, 
I awoke this morning with a new 
Valentine's Day "attitude."  
God reminded me that I am loved 
with a pure everlasting love 
by a Husband who will never 
desert me or stop loving me.

"For your husband is your Maker —
    His name is Yahweh of Hosts—
    and the Holy One of Israel 

is your Redeemer;
    He is called the God of all the earth.
  For the LORD has called you,
    like a wife deserted and wounded 

in spirit,
    a wife of one's youth when 

she is rejected,
    says your God."
Isaiah 54:5:6

So even if I don't receive 
flowers or candy from someone, 
all I have to do is count 
all the blessings I have in my life. 
All I have to do is 
remember the numerous times 
God has proven to be my Husband.
All I have to do is look around at 
the beauty with which He surrounds me.
All I have to do is to remember 
God Is Love!

Happy Valentine's Day!


Friday, February 11, 2011


You Are MY Child!

Every morning in my quiet time with the Lord, I say to Him, 
"I am listening.  Please speak the words I need to hear today."  
For the last 2 weeks the first thought to enter my mind has been, 
"You are MY child."  
After a few days of this, I started pondering what He is trying to tell me.  What in my life needs to hear these words?  

Because I live alone, I sometimes feel like 
I don't belong anywhere.  
I know I am loved by family and friends 
but there is no one who LOVES me, 
if you understand what I mean.  
I don't have a valentine.  
Most of the time, that's okay.  
But occasionally I start feeling left out and lonely.  
I think I've been feeling that way lately maybe 
because of the holidays and Valentine's Day.

I decided to find some scriptures that spoke about being God's child.

"Blessed are the peacemakers: 
for they shall be called the children of God."
Matthew 5:9
 
"But as many as received Him, 
to them He gave the right to become children of God
to those who believe in His name:"
John 1:12
"The Spirit Himself bears witness with our spirit 
that we are children of God,
and if children, 
then heirs—heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, 
if indeed we suffer with Him, 
that we may also be glorified together."
Romans 16-17

"For ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus."
Galatians 3:26
"Look at how great a love the Father has given us, 
that we should be called God's children
And we are! 
The reason the world does not know us is that it didn't know Him." 
1 John 3:1
So maybe this is why my Heavenly Father keeps 
reminding me that I am His child.  
I do belong to Him and He loves me with an everlasting love.  
I'm not alone.  
"How great a love He's given us (me)."  
He will not discard me, abuse me, leave me, or stop loving me.  
I cannot do anything to earn His love or do anything to lose His love.  
I am His child.  
Amazing, isn't it!

 
 

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Gray Hair 

The world says:

"Because I'm worth it!"

 "Does she or doesn't she?
Only her hairdresser knows for sure?"

"If I've only one life, let me live it as a blonde!"

 "Wash that gray right out of your hair!"

Gray hair!  
How our society rues that first gray hair.  
We are inundated with commercials exhorting us 
to cover them as soon as they appear.  
Women especially feel pressured 
to cover that gray so they will appear more youthful.

GOD's Word Says:

"Gray hair is a glorious crown;
    it is found in the way of righteousness."
Proverbs 16:31

Some of the most beautiful women I have known
had a head full of gray hair.
 Some of the wisest women I have known
had a head full of gray hair.
Many of these women also are examples 
of living a life grounded in faith 
and in a deeply intimate relationship with God.

GOD's Word says:

"You are to rise in the presence of the elderly and honor the old. 
Fear your God; I am the LORD."
 Leviticus 19:32
Our society pushes the elderly off to the side.
Neglect and abuse are too often prevalent in their lives.
God demands respect and honor for the elderly.
We as His children must obey His commands.
 There is so much we can learn from our Senior Adults.
Ask yourself:  "How do I treat the elderly?
Am I patient and kind?"
Remember, if God wills, we will all be elderly one day!

GOD's Word Says:

"Even to your old age and gray hairs
   I am He, I am He who will sustain you.
I have made you and I will carry you;
   I will sustain you and I will rescue you."
Isaiah 46:4 
  God promises to care for us as long as we live.
He knows the number of our days.
If He knows the number of our days, 
He knows just what we will require to live out those days.
I choose to believe His Word.
I choose to trust His promise to rescue, sustain, and carry me.
What will you choose?
"And my God will supply all your needs 
according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus."
 Philippians 4:19
"As for me and my family, we will worship the LORD."
Joshua 24:15b




Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Live. Laugh. Love.
 
"A merry heart makes a cheerful countenance,
      But by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken."
Proverbs 15:13
How do we have a merry heart?  
How do we keep the bad news we see, hear, and read 
every day from breaking our hearts?  
And shouldn't our hearts be broken over the sins 
that separate so much of the world from God?
These are the questions that are swirling through my mind today.  
I certainly don't have all the answers but I do know one thing.
God is in control.
Nothing happens without His knowledge and permission.
Therefore, I have decided to believe this and trust His Word.

What does this mean for my daily life?
It means that yes, my heart breaks over the injustices in this world.
It means that I spend time in prayer for hurting people around this world.
It means I seek God's leading for things I can do in my piece of this world.
It means that I act on the impulses the Holy Spirit places on my heart.

What does this NOT mean for my daily life?
It does not mean that I despair of the state of the world.
It does not mean that I wrap myself in sackcloth and ashes.
It does not mean that I do nothing to make a difference.
It does not mean that I allow my spirit to be broken.

I choose the thoughts I think.
I choose the actions I take.
I choose to allow God's Spirit to flow though me.
I choose to enjoy a merry heart.
I choose to display a cheerful countenance.

Live. Laugh. Love.
Live the life God gives you.
Laugh with joyful abandon.
Love unconditionally.
 Live. Laugh. Love.



Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Salt and Light

Showing appreciation to someone is just a nice thing to do.  People do helpful or kind things for us every day.  Too often I know that I take these people and actions for granted.  I'm trying not to do that anymore.  I'm trying to be aware of kind or considerate actions, big and small.  Saying thank you and treating  people with respect is not only the right thing do to, it is the Christian thing to do.  If I am to be like Jesus, I must treat people the way He did when He walked among us. 
Even just a smile from a stranger can change a person's outlook for that day.  And if some gives me poor service or is unfriendly I try to remember the days when I don't feel well or just don't want to be nice.  And I have the Holy Spirit helping me.  As Christians, we should not expect non-believers to act the way we do, or maybe I should say the way we should act.  We are supposed to be different.  Salt and Light. 
These are the thoughts God gave to me today.  I'm talking to myself.  If anyone else benefits from these words, give the glory to Him.  He is faithful.  He is Love!